A firm
foundation for a value-system is automatically furnished to the
self-actualizer by his philosophic acceptance of the nature of
his self, of human nature, of much of social life, and of nature
and physical reality. These "acceptance-values" account
for a high percentage of the total of his individual value-judgments
from day to day. What he approves of, disapproves of, is loyal
to, opposes, or proposes, what pleases him or displeases him,
can often be understood as surface derivations of this source
trait of acceptance.
Not
only is this foundation automatically (and universally) supplied
to all SA's by their intrinsic dynamics (so that in at least this
respect fully developed human nature may be universal and crosscultural);
other determiners are supplied as well by these same dynamics.
Among these are (a) his peculiarly comfortable relationships with
reality, (b) his Gemeinschaftsgefuhl, (c) his basically satisfied
condition, from which flow, as epiphenomena, various consequences
of surplus, of wealth, of overflowing abundance, (d) his characteristic
relations to means and ends, etc. (see above).
One
most important consequence of this attitude toward the world-as
well as a validation of it-is the fact that conflict and struggle,
.; ambivalence and uncertainty over choice, lessen or disappear
in many I areas of life. Apparently morality is largely an epiphenomenon
of nonacceptance or dissatisfaction. Many "problems"
are. seen to be gratuitous and fade out of existence in the atmosphere
of pagan acceptance. It is not so much that the problem is solved
as that it becomes clearly seen that it never was an intrinsic
problem in the first place, but only a sick man-created one, e.g.,
card-playing, dancing, wearing short dresses,exposing the head
(in some churches) or not exposing the head (in others), drinking
wine, or eating some meats and not others, or eating them on some
days but not on others. Not only are such trivialities deflated;
the process also goes on at a more important level, e.g., the
relations between the sexes, attitudes toward the structure of
the body and toward its functioning, and attitudes toward death
itself.
The
pursuit of this finding to more profound levels has suggested
to the writer that much else of what passes for morals, ethics,
and values may be the gratuitous epiphenomena of the pervasive
psychopathology of the "average." Many conflicts, frustrations,
and threats (which force the kind of choice in which value is
expressed) evaporate or resolve for | the self-actualizing person
in the same way as do, let us say, conflicts | over dancing. For
him the seemingly irreconcilable battle of the sexes becomes no
conflict at all but rather a delightful collaboration. The "antagonistic"
interests of adults and children turn out to be not so antagonistic
after all. Just as with sex and age differences, so also is it
with natural differences, class and caste differences, political
differences, role differences, religious differences, etc. As
we know, these are each fertile breeding grounds for anxiety,
fear, hostility, aggression, defensiveness, and jealousy. But
it begins to appear that they need not be, for our subjects' reaction
to differences is much less often of this undesirable type.
To
take the teacher-student relationship as a specific paradigm,
our teacher-subjects behaved in a very unneurotic way simply by
interpreting the whole situation differently, i.e., as a pleasant
collaboration rather than as a dash of wills, of authority, of
dignity, etc. The replacement of artificial dignity- which is
easily threatened-with the natural simplicity which is not easily
threatened, the giving up of the attempt to be omniscient and
omnipotent, the absence of student-threatening authoritarianism,
the refusal to regard the students as competing with each other
or with the teacher, the refusal to assume the "professor"
a stereotype and the insistence on remaining as realistically
human as, say, a plumber or a carpenter-all of these created a
classroom atmosphere | in which suspicion, wariness, defensiveness,
hostility, and anxiety disappeared. So also do similar threat-responses
tend to disappear in marriages, in families, and in other interpersonal
situations when threat itself is reduced.
It
is possible to generalize even further, for it seems possible
that most or perhaps even all value dichotomies or polarities
tend to disappear or resolve in self-actualizing people. These
people are neither selfish nor unselfish in the ordinary sense;
they are both (or neither). They are neither rationalists nor
intuitionalists, neither classical nor romantic, neither self-interested
nor other-interested, neither introverts nor extroverts, etc.
Rather they are both. Or, to be accurate,; in them these dichotomies
simply do not apply.
The
principles and the values of the desperate man and of the psychologically
healthy man must be different perceptions (interpretations) of
the physical world, the social world, and the private psychological
world, whose organization and economy are in part the responsibility
of the person's value system. For the basically deprived man the
world is a dangerous place, a jungle, an enemy territory populated
by (a) those whom he can dominate and (b) those who can dominate
him. His value system is of necessity, like that of any jungle
denizen, dominated and organized by the "lower" needs,
especially the creature needs and the safety needs. The basically
satisfied person is in a different case. He can afford out of
his abundance to take these needs and their satisfaction for granted
and can devote himself to higher gratifications. This is to say
that their value systems are different-in fact, must be different.
The
topmost portion of the value system of the SA person is entirely
unique and idiosyncratic-character-structure-expressive. This
must be true by definition, for self-actualization is actualization
of a self, and no two selves are altogether alike. There is only
one Renoir, one Brahms, one Spinoza. Our subjects had very much
in common, as we have seen, and yet, at the same time, were more
completely individualized, more unmistakably themselves, less
easily confounded 'with others than any average control group
could possibly be. That is to say, they are simultaneously very
much alike and very much unlike each other. They are more completely
"individual" than any group that has ever been described
and yet are also more completely socialized, more identified with
humanity, than any other group yet described.