The
condition that perturbation generation is a function of ugliness
must hold for the following to be true. Such ugliness can manifest
itself through innate personality characteristics or superficial
appearance. The cause matters not, what is crucial is that the
child brings about more perturbation on average for surrounding
peers and adults then an attractive child. Additionally, the child
must be unwilling to control that which brings about perturbation
in others.
Ugliness
has an effect on assistance distribution. An ugly child will receive
less assistance from peers and adults because an ugly child will
generate perturbation for them. Furthermore, others prefer to
assist the attractive child because the attractive child can modestly
reduce perturbations for those offering them assistance. The simultaneous
effect of the attractive child reducing while the ugly child generating
perturbation leads both adults and peers to favor the attractive
child. Assistance distribution gets shifted to the attractive
child as on average others will be more inclined to assist in
managing the perturbations of the attractive child over the ugly
child. Thus the attractive child experiences less perturbations
while the ugly child experiences more perturbations.
Additionally,
with assistance distribution shifted towards the attractive child
appeals by the ugly child for aid regarding a current perturbation
are less likely to be met. This causes the ugly child to be forced
to deal with his or her perturbations more directly. When perturbations
crop up, they must develop explanations to control this perturbation.
When one explanation fails, they must revise or generate an explanation
until they develop one that enables them control over the perturbation.
When the attractive child experiences a perturbation they can
pass the perturbation on to others to manage. The attractive child
does not need to develop an explanation. In cases were the attractive
child develops an explanation regarding a perturbation the explanation
is not necessarily tested because someone else manages the perturbation
before it can be put tested. Thus the overall effect of the shift
in distribution assistance is that the ugly child on the whole
must develop more of his own explanations then the attractive
child. Furthermore, the ugly child must conduct much more revisions
to his explanation because he must actually test them while the
attractive child may develop an explanation, but need not test
them because someone else will manage the perturbations for them.
Over
the course of time the ugly child will develop an elaborate explanatory
system that is directly tied to their day to day experience. This
happens because they are the one's that must find a way to eliminate
their perturbations. Hence, their explanations are directly tested
and constantly refined so as to find the most effective explanations
for their perturbations. The attractive child will also have explanations
for their perturbations, but they will not be tested as rigorously
or the explanations will consist of enlisting the aid of others.
More often though the attractive child's explanation become very
strongly loaded with moral explanations: "If person A would
do this then I would not have to deal with this perturbation".
The attractive child learns how to apply morality to people to
manage their perturbations. These are not explanations for the
cause of perturbation, but methods one applies to get others to
manage their perturbations. Thus, the explanatory system that
develops in the attractive person is more morally oriented.
As
they age, the ugly child realizes the process by which they develop
their explanatory system. Effectively, they develop an explanatory
system for the process by which they give explanation for their
perturbations. They have become acutely aware of how imperative
it is to perceive and admit failure when an explanation fails
to control a perturbation and the critical role modification plays
in making that explanation succeed. They will begin to apply this
to all perturbations they experience.
One
natural extension of this application is explaining their own
mental states. Over time, as their explanatory system tightens
it's ability to predict and control their own mental states they
begin to apply these same explanations to those around them. This
enables the ugly child tremendous power to empathize with those
around them. Such that they develop a nuance understanding of
people and is able to wield this understanding to control potential
perturbations that other's may create for both the ugly child
and those around him or her.
As
the attractive child ages no such meta-awarness is had regarding
awareness and modification. Through the collective efforts of
many well intentioned people assisting the attractive child they
have inadvertently retarded the skill development of perturbation
manipulation for the child. The ugly child is never forced to
develop a robust explanatory system for their own mental states
and thus are unable to apply these explanations to others. They
are miserable at empathizing with others. However they have become
experts at using others to manage their perturbations for them.
In this sense they use a system of morality to control others
which in turn controls their perturbations for them. They develop
elaborate an moral system to manipulate others into managing their
perturbations for them.
Their
is something to be said about having expert control over the moral
systems needed to manipulate others so that they may manage your
perturbations, however this is not for me. And I certainly do
not wish this fate for my children. Therefore, I hope the best
for my children. I hope they are ugly.